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Peace in My Parenting Archives
Honest, heart-full, helpful articles to support you on your parenting path.


"You just don't get me!!"
Photo by Lori K Walters You're standing in the kitchen with your teenager. You're trying to talk to them about...
Lori K Walters
May 214 min read


Why teens lie
Photo by Lori K Walters OK, let’s have a show of hands. Who lied to their parents as a teenager? All but three of us, right? Are there...
Lori K Walters
May 145 min read


Excluding your teenager and not even realizing it
Photo by Lori K Walters Is one of your kids just plain different from the rest of your family? Meena says it like this, “The rest of us...
Lori K Walters
May 73 min read


You might be missing these openings to connect with your teenager.
Photo by Lori K Walters Tara sits quietly at the kitchen table. The dishes are done and lunches are ready for tomorrow. It's dark and,...
Lori K Walters
Apr 305 min read


Teach your teenager that they're not for everyone.
Photo by Aaron Burden on Unsplash If you’re anything like me, you’ve spent many hours of your life trying to twist yourself into what...
Lori K Walters
Apr 234 min read


You can't protect them from heartache.
Photo by Lori K Walters A letter to our 21-year-olds: Oh, my dear, I see how your heart is aching. How you feel disappointed, betrayed,...
Lori K Walters
Apr 163 min read


If you want to connect, build a bridge first.
Photo by Lori K Walters I was talking with a recent acquaintance about his ‘grown and flown’ kids and he said that he talks with them...
Lori K Walters
Apr 94 min read


Most Parents of Teenagers Brace Themselves (and wish they didn't)
Photo by Lori K Walters Do you brace yourself for your teenager's reactions? “I see her name on my phone and I immediately feel tense. I...
Lori K Walters
Apr 25 min read


Got an overly dramatic teenager in your house?
Photo by Lori K Walters Scenario 1: What would happen if your doctor said the problem was your fibula when it was actually your knee?...
Lori K Walters
Mar 185 min read


Four easy lessons: what drives me crazy about the parent coaching industry.
Photo by Kristīne Zāle on Unsplash Why, oh, why do I keep looking at what other parenting coaches are saying? I want to keep my finger...
Lori K Walters
Mar 114 min read


Maybe it’s not about your teenager - maybe it’s about your own sense of belonging.
As you well know, parenting young adults is not for the faint of heart. It’s a great exercise in discovering all you don’t know. And it’s...
Lori K Walters
Feb 255 min read


Are there risks to changing how you parent your teen? You bet!
There's no doubt about it, risks are part of life. As the saying goes, when you stop taking risks, you stop living. So, we weigh the pros...
Lori K Walters
Feb 115 min read


Loving the misunderstood, mistrusted and maligned of the world
When I was a child, I often felt like I didn’t quite belong in my family. Maybe every kid feels that to some extent and maybe it’s part...
Lori K Walters
Jan 283 min read


When my teenager is angry, I just want to make them feel better.
Photo by Annie Spratt on Unsplash I recently wrote about ways parents can stay connected with our young adult children when they...
Lori K Walters
Jan 215 min read


My teenager is always angry.
Photo by Jacek Dylag on Unsplash If you and I met for a cup of tea and I told you how angry I was with my boss, partner or neighbour,...
Lori K Walters
Jan 146 min read


When you’re triggered by your teen, you’re naturally focused on tiny details. Here's how to zoom out for an expanded perspective.
Photo by Hans Veth on Unsplash "I know I should stop but I don’t know how." "It's just the way I am." "My rage takes over and I'm...
Lori K Walters
Jan 75 min read


It’s ok to be angry with your teenager.
In recent weeks, I’ve listened to several moms talking about their fear of showing anger around their teenager or young adult. “I don’t...
Lori K Walters
Dec 31, 20244 min read


You can’t create a calm space with your teenager until you can get access to your own calm; Attuning to safety in your body.
The first time I was told to ‘listen to my body’, I was confused. It sounded so basic and self-explanatory, like something everyone knows...
Lori K Walters
Dec 17, 20245 min read


When you’re in the throes of parenting teens, it’s easy to forget how far you’ve come.
Here in the northern hemisphere, autumn has arrived. The leaves are yellow and the air is crisp. But when did it arrive? Was it the first...
Lori K Walters
Dec 10, 20244 min read


Change your emotional inheritance and you’ll parent differently
I have a cookbook that was published in 1967 by the BC Women’s Institute. My grandma belonged to the organization, and I remember...
Lori K Walters
Dec 3, 20245 min read


Are you taking your teen’s behavior too personally?
Kara sits in her kitchen wondering what she’s doing wrong. Her daughter, Bailey, barely speaks to her. When she comes home, she wafts...
Lori K Walters
Nov 26, 20245 min read


What’s your teenager concluding from your behavior? Fixing the gap between your intention and your impact.
Picture this: You’re excited about your teenager’s first day at their new job. You know how important this is for them and want it to go...
Lori K Walters
Nov 19, 20245 min read


Meeting the Overwhelm of Parenting Teens
Hello there, Overwhelm. You back again? These were words that I couldn’t say ten years ago. I couldn’t admit that I was overwhelmed to my...
Lori K Walters
Nov 5, 20245 min read


Practices for cultivating your steadiness in parenting
When you shake a snow globe, no matter which way you turn it or how hard you shake it, no matter how quickly the snowflakes and bubbles...
Lori K Walters
Oct 22, 20244 min read
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