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Welcome to the Peace in My Parenting archives.
Honest, heart-full, helpful articles to support you on your parenting path.


How to Reconnect after an argument with your Teen
My kids recently asked if we could look through photos from when they were little and we lived in Yellowknife. I love looking at those...
Lori K Walters
Aug 20, 20244 min read


Lies your nervous system tells you about your teen
Mama, when you’re anxious, overwhelmed, frustrated and confused about parenting your teen, your nervous system might be telling you...
Lori K Walters
Aug 13, 20244 min read


The ultimate doubt for mothers of young adults: Am I even the right parent for this kid?
It's so hard some days, parenting teens and young adults, some months… the seemingly constant backtalk, accusation and opposition, the...
Lori K Walters
Aug 6, 20243 min read


My teenager pushed and pushed me… until I did this.
In my twenties, I lived on a communal organic sheep farm where we used electric fences to keep the woolly ones grazing on the right...
Lori K Walters
Jul 23, 20245 min read


Tending to your Deepest Self Care
When I became a mother, I thought that putting the kids first meant there wasn’t room for my self-care. I know I’m not the only one…...
Lori K Walters
Jul 16, 20245 min read


Forget about your Parenting Triggers and Do This instead
For all of us who deeply feel the overwhelm and angst of parenting teens and young adults, the worry of what’s going to happen to them...
Lori K Walters
Jul 8, 20245 min read


Are you giving your teenager feedback or blame?
It goes something like this. You’ve asked your teen a thousand times to change out the garbage bag when it’s full. You walk into the...
Lori K Walters
Jun 30, 20243 min read


How your choice of words creates new parenting possibilities.
Our language is a powerful influence on life. Our ancestors honoured their story-keepers, bards and orators. They repeated the epics,...
Lori K Walters
Jun 25, 20246 min read


3 Practices for Staying Steady in a Teenage Storm of Emotions
On the west coast of Canada, we had an historic “double bomb storm”. Twenty hours of 50 km/h winds, crashing waves, severe downpours,...
Lori K Walters
Jun 11, 20245 min read


Asking your teenager to Listen is asking them for Presence: Help them Learn It
I haven’t met a single parent who don’t wish that their teenager would listen to them more attentively. Yes, there were the years and...
Lori K Walters
Jun 4, 20245 min read


3 Ways to Create Space for yourself in tense interactions with your Teen
You were just triggered. Your heart starts beating faster, your shoulders rise, you breath gets shallow, your vision goes fuzzy... And...
Lori K Walters
May 28, 20244 min read


Parenting teens means accepting what you cannot control
We had some unseasonably warm weather last week but now it has returned to the normal spring pattern on the west coast – rain. I’m not a...
Lori K Walters
May 21, 20245 min read


What can you do when your Big Kid is making Terrible Decisions?
Several years ago, a friend and I went to Scotland. We wanted lots of freedom, so I said I’d rent a car– even though I’d never driven on...
Lori K Walters
May 14, 20245 min read


Meet Some of My Clients: Real People Parenting Teens as best they can
Once upon a time there was a place, an island, let’s say, where many parents lived. They were kind, loving people doing their best to be...
Lori K Walters
May 7, 20243 min read


4 ways to stay centered when you feel like your teenager is shutting you out
Perhaps you know this scenario. Your teenager’s bedroom door is usually closed and, when they emerge, they're almost always wearing...
Lori K Walters
Apr 30, 20245 min read


When parenting is Hard and you wish it was different
All of us have times when we wish that our parenting job wasn't how it is. That it wasn't this difficult, wasn't this scary, this...
Lori K Walters
Apr 23, 20242 min read


Being honest with yourself about how you're contributing to the difficulty in your relationship with your teen.
“My son isn't speaking to me at all,” she said. “If I knock on his bedroom door, he yells Go away. When he comes into the kitchen, he...
Lori K Walters
Apr 9, 20245 min read


Parents of teens: Stop telling yourself "I should know how to do this."
You had plans about how you were going to parent. Damn good plans... And then one day, it’s your kid who’s getting in fights, shutting...
Lori K Walters
Apr 2, 20244 min read


If you're breaking generational cycles, you've got to forgive your parents.
This winter was the 20th anniversary of my mom’s death, an event that had a profound effect on my healing journey. She was driving down...
Lori K Walters
Mar 26, 20244 min read


How can I support my teenager with anxiety?
How to address your feelings, assumptions and wounds related to their anxiety.
Lori K Walters
Mar 13, 20245 min read


I can’t stand to watch my kid fail.
What would be possible if our kids were raised by parents who are ok with their own failures?
Lori K Walters
Mar 5, 20245 min read


Let's ditch the resolutions and talk about the dance.
How parents can gently and consciously review their year.
Lori K Walters
Feb 27, 20243 min read


How can I help my teenager be true to themselves when it’s something I’m still learning myself? Modeling authenticity when parenting young adults.
A reader asked me a great question: How can I help my teenager be true to themselves when it’s something I’m still learning myself? I...
Lori K Walters
Feb 13, 20244 min read


Listen to your teenager - it fosters World Peace.
I stand in awe of peace negotiators, restorative justice leaders and dispute mediators. They bring people back together again by teaching...
Lori K Walters
Feb 6, 20244 min read
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